Two places, at once

"she is a woman who knows what she needs... you cant provide it"

That's true. She needs someone who is there. Someone who can hang out with her and do things with her. What bothers me is that she's gone from that to convincing herself that I couldn't give her the other things she needs. The emotional closeness, the tenderness, the kindness. I did everything I could to demonstrate that I had this capacity and she just pulled farther and farther away. That's why I got angry. Not because I am an angry person. I just didn't understand why she was doing what she was doing. I couldn't deal with the doublespeak, the dishonesty, the confusion....